husband doesn t want to go on family vacation
That was plenty for me, for the social experience.). husband doesn t want to go on family vacation. People women, even! Ive been to one (and my husband was only jealous of the food), and while I dont like Vegas myself, I cant deny that the Venetian knows how to run a conference. Counseling perhaps. Interestingly, prostitution is a county-by-county decision in Nevada. They have to want to change. My legs were killing me and I my throat was sore :(! *thumbs up, fistbump, etc*, This comment got away from me a bit, Im sorry for that. Unless youre asking permission to uproot your familys life or something it just seems infantilizing. Everyone else said she deserved it! Its just as likely that hes just jealous and controlling, like every other sap who clamps down on his partners autonomy. Your level of trust in him. Its crazy how often this happens. Exactly. I think you know that all of his fears could happen to you (or be things youd do) wherever you live or any place you travel to. Privacy Policy and Affiliate Disclosures. 6. My husband doesn't want to go because of the 14 hour car ride. Im not necessarily that suspicious of the friends. I see wholesome as suitable for minors and conservative folks, so yeah, sex work isnt that. I have friend who grossly exaggerates the number of people who support his stance, nevermind the the biasing in surveying. OH MY GOD your husband makes me so pissed. I would think about whether this fits in a pattern of other bad behavior. Trotting out the results of a bogus survey is classic manipulation, in many sectors. It doesnt mean you dont love him, and it doesnt mean either of you are bad people. When I was there, I went to museums, saw a few shows, visited a shopping centerall during the day (except the shows) and safe. And if you dont trust your spouse, why would you want to remain married to them? She has a job where you travel, and to him that probably sounds like shes achieving well (and she very well is) when *he is not,* comparatively. My spouse travels for work all the time. I dont gamble and am not much of a drinker/partier and I thought Vegas was great! Ive lived in Vegas for over a decade and have attended many, many conferences here as well as in other cities. Weve been a few times on holiday and love it the shopping, the food we dont even bother with the gambling. Being worried about my safety seemed a bit off since I was being chauffered around with a group of his female relatives. But I am going to totally disagree with you that its not a relationship problem. It reminds me of what my parents always said to stop me doing things. It probably wont improve the relationship to say this directly to him, but it is definitely something to keep in mind. (And I love it when he goes on trips: he likes traveling.) One of my best friends took his family (2 very young children) to Vegas, and they had a great time. Nothing to do with trust, we just wouldnt want Vegas tarnished by work! Right now hes in Alaska shooting a documentary. Its not just a place to go party. Again, not a concern for either of us. It is NOT his choice whether you go! I dont think that would help the situation, however. Shopping!